Last Minute Surprise!

Our flight back from Taiwan to Manila was nearly 2 in the morning. So we had to take the train to get to the train that would take us to the airport, around 9 of the evening before. As we walked inside one of the train stations, we saw something that made my husband’s heartContinue reading “Last Minute Surprise!”

Tandem Biking in Taiwan

So we recently visited Taiwan!!! It was a first for King and I to travel without our kids, or our parents, out of the country. It was a first after 18 years of marriage (we celebrate our 19th anniversary this year)! We met up with some of our closest friends — a couple based inContinue reading “Tandem Biking in Taiwan”

17 years!

It’s been 17 years since the day we said I do to each other. Let me see if I can share with you 17 things we’ve learned in our 17 years together. 1. Marriage is not the goal. It is just a tool. >Christ is still the goal.< 2. Listen first. We can respond correctlyContinue reading “17 years!”

15 Years <3

Today we celebrate our 15th wedding anniversary. ❤  I cannot thank God enough for first giving me the best husband, and then for sustaining us all these years. When I married King, I was sure that it was God who ordained everything for us to be together. But he isn’t perfect, and I am notContinue reading “15 Years <3”

Culture of Gratitude

King and I had another opportunity to teach engaged couples in our church yesterday, at our wedding prep seminar called Before I Do. And one of the principles that we teach, though it is not in their manuals, is the concept of low expectation, high appreciation. In simpler terms, low demand, high appreciation. Demand less,Continue reading “Culture of Gratitude”

Low Expectation, High Appreciation

One of the best lessons we have learned, and also teach to other couples, is the concept of Low Expectation and High Appreciation. Coming from a place of hope instead of demand or expectation. A few months ago, I noticed this in action. Not that it’s never at work in our marriage haha. I justContinue reading “Low Expectation, High Appreciation”

Marriage Tip from Designated Survivor

I’ve recently watched the entire first season of Designated Survivor and it’s awesome! I keep hoping for Tom Kirkman to go Jack Bauer mode haha. I monopolized netflix, told Gianna that it’s mommy’s turn to watch. She obliged. She calls it my show and calls it “Mr. President” haha. Anyway, there is this one episodeContinue reading “Marriage Tip from Designated Survivor”

Our Words Have Power

Wife, do you tell your husband you are proud of him? When was the last time you did? Husband, do you tell your wife she is beautiful? When was the last time you did? The tongue has the power of life and death, the Bible says. Let’s lift each other up with our words. Wife,Continue reading “Our Words Have Power”

Vow

  Okay, so we Filipinos seem to have all been affected by the Jollibee valentine ads. I am talking particularly about “Vow.” It’s a brilliant ad, telling us that no matter what happens, Jollibee will always be there for us, to make us feel loved and happy each time we visit their stores. But really,Continue reading “Vow”

Golden!

My in-laws recently celebrated their golden wedding anniversary. First of all, 50 years together? Wow! What an amazing milestone! Growing up, I attended the golden wedding anniversary celebrations of my grandparents on both sides. I think I may even have played the piano at one of them. I love that my children will also remember celebratingContinue reading “Golden!”