Forgiveness is a matter of Lordship. You forgive not because your offender deserves it. You forgive not because what your offender did is okay. You forgive not because you are the bigger person. You forgive not because it’s easy or comfortable. You choose to forgive because, by the grace of God, you choose Jesus over yourself. You choose to obey Jesus, rather than to obey your emotions.
There’s a song I love by Group 1 Crew, called Wake Me Up (Amnesia). Listen to it. It’s a cool song. One of my favorite lines is:
“So who will I choose? Me or You?”
This is the choice we must face each time we are angry or hurt, needing to forgive another. Many times it’s not because we can’t, but because we don’t want to let go. We want to keep holding on to the anger, maybe because we don’t want our offender to get away with hurting us. We want justice. We want to be understood. We want to be proven right. (More on forgiveness here.)
But we must always go back to the question, Who is Lord of my life? Do I continue to sit on the throne of my heart, do what I want, when I want? Or do I rightfully give up the throne and let Jesus rule my heart? Who will I choose — ME and my emotions? or the HONOR of JESUS?
Most of the time difficult. But by the grace of God, never impossible.
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Eph 4:32
Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26
2 thoughts on “Me or You?”
Thank you for sharing this, Miss Phoebe! These are the same questions I have been asking myself lately.
Thanks loui. Hug. 🙂