After my speaking engagement in Marillac, I joined King in speaking at the youth service the same day. It was the final installment of the Love series, wherein we shared about marriage. As usual, we started by sharing our amazing love story. This might be a long read, but I’m sure for all the romantics out there, it will be well worth it.

The year was 2003. There was talk of LA Mumar and a certain King Lucero of Talents InC moving to VCF- Alabang to eventually plant the Sta Rosa church. I knew LA by name and face of course since he used to be an actor. I had no clue who King Lucero was. When they finally came to church in September, I didn’t get to meet them right away. It was Macy, LA’s wife (they were newly married then), whom I introduced myself to after one service. Things just rolled from there. We would hang out a lot, even in the Mumars’ Mamplasan home at times….me, Ayessa, Sharon, Haidee, Macy, LA and King.

The church was growing and we were moving from WestGate to Festival Mall in December. King got some youth and singles to dance for our first service in the mall. Being a “dancer” too, I was excited to watch their first rehearsal. Then Sharon asked me to join them. After a while, I agreed as long as it was okay with King, since he was the choreographer and leader of the whole thing. King accommodated me (though later on he told me that he didn’t plan on getting any more dancers…he was just being polite…hehehe). That’s how we became a bit more friends. I even brought him food the night before the dance because I felt sorry for him that he had already finished editing his video but it somehow disappeared from the computer. He stayed in Westgate that night, and slept very little.

And so we danced in front of the whole congregation the next day. I remember somebody saying we (King and I) looked good together on stage. Come to think of it, I remember saying to myself when they first introduced King during service at Westgate that I don’t want to be impressed by his dancing abilities. Good thing I was with him on stage as opposed to just watching him. Just to remind you though, this was before any kind of attraction began between us. We both had “other interests”.

Victory Night was a week or so after that and as I entered the center, I noticed myself scanning the room for King. LA eventually told me, when I asked, that he was in Myanmar for missions. I was disappointed that he wasn’t there, but a different kind of respect for him grew inside of me. Though I still did not like him like him yet.

Anyway, to make the short story even shorter, by prayer and fasting in January 2004, King asked for and received a vision from God. It was me, waving at him. He actually saw it happen later on that week when I was waving for him to call Jose (Quest). I, on the other hand, for the first time, did not include marriage in my faith goals that year. He didn’t act on his feelings right away, but waited to see if it would grow even without constant communication. We weren’t text mates. We would only hang out when La and Macy were there, maybe once a week or even less. During this time, I would always ask myself (as other people would ask me too), if I was open to King “if ever”. And I was. But there came many points in our interactions that made me think that we don’t jive because we had different wavelengths.

It was on the first week of March that I was so distracted by thoughts of him. As in I would cry to God because I didn’t want to be distracted. I did everything I could to escape, but it was that week that God spoke to me about King.

On March 6, my friend and victory group leader Michelle, after I admitted to her and to myself for the first time that I liked liked King, encouraged me and prayed for me, saying that it’s a new season that I should be excited for. Indescribable and undeniable peace rested in my heart, and I just knew that King was the one. I wondered when it was all going to unfold, but I didn’t even have time to get impatient because King laid down his intentions for me the next day! His plan was actually to do it Monday, but Pastor Neil said “why not tonight?” It was a Sunday. And the timing was just perfectly orchestrated by God. I was busy with Kids’ church (though my ministry involvement then was Junior Kids) the whole day because Jun Calalang asked for help about a month prior. Apparently, Macy, Ayessa and Sharon were out the whole afternoon because they got their hair done. Kay, another good friend, was supposed to come back to church to accompany a friend but that friend couldn’t come anymore, so she didn’t come back either. I attended the last service, saw Michelle and we sat together. Before the service ended, Michelle disappeared for a while. By end of the service, King approached me and asked if I wanted to eat (which was usual for our group after service, except I didn’t know that there was nobody else there that night but LA), and I said “yes, tara, I’m hungry.” I even asked LA and he acted as if he was also coming. Little did I know that everyone knew! Pastor Neil and King spoke to Michelle that evening. LA and the other pastors knew what was happening while I was clueless. Some even said congratulations, which I didnt’ “get” thank God, else it would have been ruined because I would have run away haha. But I did notice that only the two of us walked out of the center, and so I asked where everyone else was. King couldn’t answer me straight. I texted Michelle and she said she knew. Man!!!! I was cornered! Happy to be, though nervous. So we ate at Almon Marina….. actually, i ate (steak) and King could barely touch his soup. He made his spiel and he asked me if i was okay with that. I agreed of course, though at first I was planning to say no just to mess with his head. In short, courtship began…..and ended on April 14 because he proposed in a beautiful home in Bataan, overlooking the ocean, and we got engaged. Seven months later, a little over a year after we first met, on November 15, 2004, past 3pm, we got married at Taal Vista Hotel, Tagaytay.

Today, we’re on our way to our 7th anniversary, and we have two beautiful daughters. If not for the Lord, His grace and mercy, who knows where our family would be headed? But because of His presence in our lives, we are what we are — together, blessed, and happy. ๐Ÿ™‚

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About Phoebe Torres-Lucero

I am Phoebe Torres-Lucero, wife of a loving husband & dedicated pastor, King, and mother to three wonderful, smart, active little girls, Danae, Noelle and Gianna. Phoebe means bright and radiant. Torres means towers. Lucero means light. Put together, my name speaks of a tower of bright, radiant light. And that is what I hope to be as I write and share with you some of my experiences, especially on being a mom.

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  1. may palacpac says:

    I remember bumping into you and ptr King on your way to that dinner and I didn’t know how to react, hahahaha, and Michelle was quick to pull me away and assured me that it was okay. Talk about being prude and legalistic! I wanted to chaperone even if I didn’t eat, whahahahahahahaha!

  2. may palacpac says:

    to add — just the other day, I was just telling Jay that I’m glad it was King you got married to. You know exactly what I mean.

    • phoebelucero says:

      haha you’re so funny! i don’t even remember that. well peer, from glory to glory talaga. we all have our moments. part of growing as a christian. thanks peer. i know how glad you are, but trust me, i’m a million times more glad that King is my husband. praise God talaga! hahaha. ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. Michelle says:

    7 years already?! wow! I was and still am blessed to witness and be a part of this beautiful love story! keep sharing! Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story! (psalm 107:2)

  4. Chrina says:

    Just got super kilig! ๐Ÿ™‚ I know we weren’t THAT close when all this was happening…but for some reason, I remember those days! Was nice witnessing how everything unfolded for you two!

  5. Ronna Capili says:

    I remember everything! Most especially the sandwich. ๐Ÿ™‚ And the text “announcing” to your friends that you were seeing each other. Glad to have been, and to continually being a part of your lives!

  6. maan says:

    hehehe…. I think I remember when we played balderdash @LA’s there was already a conspiracy going on.. sabi ko partner kami ni KING, hinarang ni LA, kami na lang daw partner para kayo ni KING ang partner. hahaha

    AT yung hangout sa house ko na kayo lang ni KING ang bisita ko. wahhahahaahahahhaahhaah! (style) may nilalaro tayong game nun sa PC ko eh….

    AT syempre… ako yata kumanta sa kasal mo ng….”ADORE…ADORE…ADOOORRRRE….Jesus I adore you”

    Will never forget this love story…I was part of it! in many subtle ways…

    You guys are defo trailblazers!!! forerunners! hahaha LOVE YOU GUYS!

  7. david bernardo says:

    grabe, pastor king has the moves.hahaha. It never fails to amaze me how God orchestrates these kind of love stories, magpapaturo ako senyo nila pastor king ms.phoebe haha!!!

  8. carl says:

    what a sweet love story… better than the movies!

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  10. A very BEAUTIFUL love story. You guys are so lucky.

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